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Gifts of self can provide the ultimate match of a givers talents to the wants or needs of the recipient. Bestow your gift of self with charm, whimsy, or elegance. Write a clever poem or riddle alluding to the gift or give a token toy, trinket, or photograph depicting the thought or intent of the present.

 

gift ideas  (excerpted from Present Perfect)     

Give companionship:

  • Arrange a regular time to read to a child, a sight-impaired person, or someone who is confined to bed at home or in a care facility.
  • Attend a class, lecture, concert, or sports event with the recipient.
  • Volunteer to be a mentor.
  • Be a "workout buddy."
  • Take an overworked single parent out for a relaxing evening on the town in the company of a friend.
  • Take a child on a boat ride, a hayride, or to a zoon, museum, festival, or amusement park.
  • Visit a person who is confined to bed in the hospital, in a care center, or at home.

Share your expertise in one the following:

  • Architecture, landscaping, or interior design
  • Computing
  • Woodworking, furniture repair or refinishing, upholstering
  • Flower arranging
  • Sailing, cycling, driving
  • Sports (tennis, golf, swimming, team sports)
  • Tax accounting (advice or preparation)
  • Estate planning 

Provide one of the following services:

  • Tutoring, coaching
  • Hair cutting or styling
  • Shopping, errand running
  • House-sitting or pet-sitting
  • Wardrobe or color consulting
  • Document design, word processing
  • Maid service for a day, for a special occasion, or for a specified time
  • Nursing care
  • Transportation
  • Child care
  • Holiday gift wrapping
  • Auto repair, painting, maintenance, detailing, or cleaning
Share one of the following talents.
  • Cooking—Issue dessert-of-the-month certificates, prepare a special meal, or share a secret recipe.
  • Music—Provide entertainment for a party or reception, or give a tape recording of your music.
  • Dressmaking—Sew a prom dress, wedding gown, costume, or another outfit for a special occasion.
  • Quilting, knitting, embroidery—Donate your handiwork for a fund-raising crafts fair or bazaar.
  • Painting—Give a custom work of art of the recipient's choice.
  • Calligraphy—Address birth, graduation, or wedding announcements or copy and frame the recipient's favorite verse, quotation, or scriptural reference.

Help with a project:

  • Wallpaper a room
  • Plan or prepare for a party
  • Organize a collection
  • Decorate a friend's house for the holidays
  • Seed, aerate, power rake, or fertilize a lawn
  • Refinish a piece of furniture
  • Construct a dog house, tree house, go-cart, or model
  • Plant or harvest a garden
  • Build or paint a fence
  • Clean out a garage, barn, or storage shed
  • Help restore a boat, car, or bicycle

Emerson wrote, "The only gift is a portion of thyself." But many people feel they lack the time or creative talent to give of themselves. However, with just a little imagination and effort on your part, you can put a portion of yourself into every gift you give.

  • "Monogram" gifts to children—a lunch box, a backpack, a chalkboard, a flashlight, an article of clothing—with marking pens and paints.
  • Appliqué your own design on an apron, sweater, or kitchen linens
  • Pass on a note about a gift's origin or significance when giving something unique or uncommon, or when passing down a family heirloom.
  • Include a photograph of you and the recipient with the gift of an album or a picture frame.
  • Compose an original poem for the inside cover of a book of poetry.
  • Prepare and freeze a meal, side dish, or dessert to include with your gift of bake ware, a crock pot, or a microwave.
  • Give a bouquet of your prize-winning roses along with a beautiful vase and a note in which you promise to fill the vase regularly with other flowers cut from your garden.
  • Giving a cookie jar? Fill it to the brim with your best homemade cookies. (Be sure to include a copy of the cookie recipe too.)
  • When giving a journal, record a treasured memory of an experience you had with the recipient.


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